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10 facts about Kissing

01.About 30 muscles work very actively during the renowned French kiss: twelve of them control the movements of lips and eleven muscles are responsible for the tongue. The “French experience” accelerates the pulse from 70 to 150 beats per minute.

02. Young people start kissing two or three years before they launch their sex lives. Fifty percent of males experience the excitement of the first kiss at 13 or 14 years of age.

03. The longest kiss ever lasted for 17 days, 10 hours and 30 minutes. The record can be found in the Guinness Book of World Records, although the kissing couple had to be hospitalized with severe exhaustion. When they recovered, they never met each other again.

04. Kissing on the lips is the most popular way of kissing among men

A good sex life helps you live longer

London, Jan 18 (ANI): A new study has revealed that a great sex life will not only help you feel and look younger – it will also help you live longer.

Dr Eric Braverman, an anti-ageing expert from the US, has written a new book ‘Younger (Sexier) You,’ in which he says that sex not only raises your hormone -levels (so keeping you young), but can also boost your metabolism, brain function, heart health and immunity.

Braverman says that coffee can help boost a flagging libido, while snacking on peanuts can enhance arousal, reports the Daily Mail.
Eating brown rice can help combat sexual coldness, while avocadoes might increase your capacity for pleasure.

Braverman also points to a study by Queen’s University in Belfast that suggested having sex three or more times a week reduced the risk of heart attack or stroke in men by half.

Orgasms are thought to fight infection – increasing the number of infection-fighting cells by up to 20 per cent.

A recent study also found that greater sexual activity in older men might protect them against prostate cancer.

According to the doctor, the best aphrodisiacs are asparagus, bananas, cabbage, celery, figs, oysters and sea veggies.

But it’s not just about the mechanics of sex. Healthy sexual function is also about how your brain reacts to the messages it’s receiving from your body, he adds.

When your brain is working at its peak, brain chemicals are produced and dispersed at the correct levels. A reduced sexual desire can apparently be the first sign there’s a problem with one of the four key brain chemicals – dopamine, acetylcholine, GABA and serotonin.

The following spices can also boost dopamine levels: basil, black pepper, cayenne, chilli peppers, cumin, fennel, flax seeds, garlic, ginger, mustard seed, rosemary, sesame seeds, tarragon and turmeric.

Spices good for boosting acetylcholine include allspice, basil, cumin, peppermint, sage, thyme and turmeric.

Alcohol increases GABA -levels, but make sure you stop at one or two glasses a day – a man might not be able to maintain an erection and a woman could nod off.

Good antidepressant spices for serotonin include anise, dill, marjoram, nutmeg, peppermint, saffron, spearmint and turmeric. (ANI)

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Talk to me

Whoa! I’m not ready to say anything! Ok, let’s start slow.

Starting Slow

You look beautiful tonight.
I love how your hair smells.
I love how your skin smells.
Your eyes look amazing tonight, they sparkle in the light.
I like your warm breath on my neck.
I like your warm breath on my ear.
Your hand on my knee feels nice.
Your hand on my shoulder feels nice.

So these slow examples are a way to say “talk dirty to me” and not blow the roof off. It’s like a train going up a steep hill – the train has to build up steam, it can’t just come out of the gates and fly up the hill – it will be met with a lot of resistance. We don’t want resistance, we want success! We want to be able to say “talk dirty to me” with confidence, and growing talking dirty into our relationship with our mate.

Foreplay

I want to get naked with you right now.
I love you so much. Can you feel it?
Do you like the way that feels?
I love the things you do with your tongue.
What’s that thing you do with your hand? I adore that!
I love the way you kiss me – especially when you kiss me there!
You’re so damn gorgeous.
Want to see what I really want? Come closer –
Strip for me, honey. Slow. I want to savor every inch of you.
Do you like the way that looks?
I’m going to control you tonight.
This is going to be the dirtiest night of your life.

Now as you can see here, we’re upped the ante and are speaking a little hotter. In my “talk dirty to me” examples I’m staying ‘softcore’ – so not to say anything too rash and shocking. It’s important to start slow, and learn how your mate likes to be spoken to. Do they like it mild, regular or hot?

Hot Stuff!

Say my name when you do that!
I love feeling your strong arms when you’re on top of me. I love your muscles!
Use your mouth on me.
Use me as your toy.
Tell me what you want.
I’ll do anything for a sexy lover like you – anything at all.
You’re the best lover I have ever had.
Show me what you can do. I know you’re (man) enough!

So these examples can be personalized with name, pet names, naughty words etc to spice them up. I’d consider these talking dirty examples to be ‘softcore’, there’s nothing too searing hot to say to my wife.

What you say to your mate all depends on their level of comfort, and if they like to softcore or hardcore. Once you know this, and the Talking Dirty Guide shows you in explicit detail, you’ll be able to master talking dirty, with your own talking dirty examples.

Go ahead – try making some of your own talking dirty examples – you’ll be surprised at how easy it can be